As a global collective, we are approaching the year 2025 with a mindset that we are “living the future”. We constantly see progress and innovation, and signs that as the human race, we are evolving. Yet across the country, and across the world, there remains a fundamental crisis in the form of Gender-Based Violence (GBV). It happens at home, at workplaces and at institutional levels. GBV is a daily crisis that requires urgent and continuous attention and action from individuals, communities, the private sector and government.

What is Gender-Based Violence (GBV)?

The first thought that comes to mind when we think of GBV is domestic violence in the form of violent or abusive behaviour from a husband or boyfriend towards their partner. While this is one of the most prevalent forms of GBV, the issue runs much deeper. It can be in the form of violence against an intimate partner of either gender, including both heterosexual and same-sex relationships. Any gender or gender identification form can be the perpetrator or victim. GBV includes violence against women and girls in non-romantic relationships, such as abusive behaviour within family and societal constructs. It can also be directed to individuals and groups who do not conform to “traditionally accepted” gender roles, such as within the LGBTQI+ community. Over and above flagrant abuse, it may also be built into both personal and professional environments where there is discrimination based on gender, underpinned by gender-centric power imbalances and double standards. Often this takes the form of institutionalized discrimination that has been ingrained over decades.

GBV can take the form of physical abuse, mental and emotional abuse, sexual abuse; and / or financial abuse. It can take place over a period of time or be an isolated incident, and it can be perpetrated by someone known to the victim, or by a stranger. The effects on the victim are just as severe across various scenarios, and often result in both short-term and long-term trauma. GBV is also intrinsically linked to femicide (gender-based killings).

Victims of GBV often are overcome by a plethora of negative emotions, including fear, guilt, hurt, hopelessness, insecurity and even suicidal thoughts. It’s often not easy for a victim to speak out, particularly within patriarchal or power-centric structures. It is therefore imperative to establish and maintain supportive and safe environments for victims to come forward, get support and receive the protection they need. Creating an environment that encourages victims to come forward includes how the police handle GBV matters, the level of support from family and friends, the condemnation of abusive behaviour across all societal and community structures; and harsh legal repercussions (both to deter violent behaviour, and to ensure perpetrators receive the full force of the law).

The Way Forward

The worldwide 16 Days of Activism for No Violence Against Women and Children takes place from 25 November to 10 December annually. This period provides an opportunity to heighten awareness around GBV and child abuse, and mobilise people globally when it comes to ending the violence. However, the issue of violence against women and children needs to be of critical concern all year round, with a focus on actual solutions when it comes to bringing down the rates of incidences.

Breaking the cycle requires behavioural change. This starts in the family or home environment, both in terms of eliminating violent behaviour, as well as victim acceptance. Both boys and girls need to be educated on how to navigate threatening situations, including speaking out. We need to make sure that our young people do not become future perpetrators or silent victims of violence. In the meantime, government and judicial structures need to ensure offenders receive severe justice, and that they understand the gravity of their actions.

Both public- and private-sector need to look at ways of strengthening support for victims – from whistleblowing mechanisms to increasing resources and safety shelters for women and children in need of refuge from violent and dangerous situations.

We also cannot treat all males in a negative light – a large percentage of males are vehemently against GBV. We must recognize the role that men play as being part of the solution. More initiatives should be driven by men speaking out against GBV, leading peer group discussions and acting as role models to boys and young men.

Together We CAN

As the year comes to a close and we look forward to 2025, we as individuals and society need to make a personal commitment of zero-tolerance towards any form of violent behaviour, both explicit and implicit. This includes any form of discrimination, victimisation or violence within communities, at home and places of employment. There has to be a sense of solidarity when it comes to standing up against GBV. We cannot overcome this crisis by turning a blind eye. With a collaborative mindset and joint mobilisation, we CAN make a difference. Let’s work together to ensure this new year marks an era of positive transformation and progressive solutions when it comes to ending GBV for good.

By Khomotso Phakgadi

SAAYC Board Member